Actress Jackie Nyaminde, famously known as Wilbroda from the beloved Kenyan TV show Papa Shirandula, has recently shared a resounding message of empowerment and independence, particularly regarding her dating life.
In a candid interview with Lynn Ngugi, Wilbroda discussed her stance on marriage, societal pressures, and her criteria for a potential partner.
Despite being subjected to constant scrutiny and comments about her marital status, Wilbroda remains steadfast in her decision not to rush into marriage. She boldly proclaimed that she feels complete and content as an individual, regardless of societal expectations or her age.
“Never ever. Even if things remain as they are, we are good. Even those comments when people say, ‘Hey, mama, you’re getting old, when will you find a husband?’ They don’t bother me one bit. As Jackie, I am complete just as I am,” Wilbroda asserted.
When discussing her ideal partner, Wilbroda prioritizes friendship above all else. She seeks a God-fearing, open-minded individual who shares her passion for travel and can serve as a positive influence on her son.
“I would love to have a friend above everything else, someone who loves God, is open-minded, enjoys travelling, and is someone who, when I bring problems, brings solutions. They should also be a good example to my son and a friend to him. Physical attributes are just an added advantage. I want a good human being,” she said.
In a past interview, Wilbroda shared candid insights into the factors that contributed to the collapse of her marriage with her baby dady.
One significant revelation was Wilbroda’s realization that she inadvertently contributed to the breakdown of her marriage by frequently having relatives, particularly her sisters, at her house.
”My sisters were always at my house, I didn’t see a big deal with it until later on after we broke up, he mentioned it to his friend,” she said.
She acknowledged that the constant presence of her relatives created an overwhelming environment for her then-husband, who later expressed his discomfort to a friend.
“I didn’t see that. Looking at it now I’m like, I contributed to their coming. I went overboard. I enjoyed their company but it cost me.”
Reflecting on her changed lifestyle, Wilbroda disclosed that she no longer entertains visitors unless they come at her invitation.
“I no longer entertain visitors even my relatives. People need their personal space. It’s one of the things. You have to be mentally prepared to have friends over.”
