If She Is REALLY Into You
This is pretty self-evident, but if she is into you, then you have a lot more freedom in what you can say to her. She’ll cut you more slack because she likes you. The techniques below are for the girls that really like you.
Be Direct
Yes, you can straight up ask for naughty pics, but she has to like you a lot and you have to be able to tell she’s into you from her texts or phone conversations. If she’s into you (you’ve had sex or at least have made out), then you can ask her to send you a sexy pic. If you can’t tell where you are at with her or you don’t know her that well, then I recommend you check out the next section.
Lead Off
If you know she likes you, then you can initiate the sexy pics. First take a pic of yourself without your shirt on or flexing (as long as you are not super fat) it’s all good. Then send it and ask her to send you a pic back. Something along the lines of, “Your turn.”
If You are Not Sure How Much She Likes You
If you just met a girl and you’re not really sure how into you she is, then you can try a more cautious approach. This way you increase your chances of getting the pic, while diminishing the risk of her calling you a creep.
Steer the Conversation Towards Pictures
If you’ve just met the girl or don’t know here that well, when you are texting or in conversation you should just steer the conversation towards pics. It can be any topic related to pictures, taking pictures, silly pictures, animal pictures, etc.
Once the conversation is on pictures and you’ve discussed some awesome pics or funny pics or whatever, then you can move on to the next step.
Keep It Ambiguous
To maximize your chances of success, you should ask for the pics in a way that’s open to interpretation. Here’s an example that I use in my texts: “speaking of pics, send me a sexy one” In this case “sexy” is left a bit ambiguous because you didn’t say naked. This type of message also lets you gauge how “in” you are with the girl. Her response will let you know how likely she is to send you a nude pic now or in the future.
There are only 3 possible outcomes:
She sends you a naked photo. The second is that she sends you a sexy pic in which she is clothed. If this happens, you can text back, “Well you look good, but I want to see a SEXIER one” or if you are feeling brave, “Again, same pose, but with less clothes” Here you are giving her a BIG hint without coming right out and saying it! Lastly, she responds with some variation of “No”. If she says, “No” then just play it off by teasing her, saying, “Oh, I see where you mind is at!” And play innocent. Say something like, “I meant a pic where you are in a sexy pose dork.” It’s important that you figure out why she said “No” (more on this in the Troubleshooting Section) without being emotionally affected.
Put the Idea In Her Head
A great way to have her start thinking about it is to bring it up through a story. Tell her a funny story about one of your friends, a person online, or yourself involving the sending of a naked picture. Gauge her responses and then ask if she has ever sent someone a naughty pic. If she hasn’t done it before, tell her you want to be her first.
