On the popular “Drive Show” with Mwalimu Rachel and Xclusive, the duo tackled a topic that resonates with many Kenyan women – how hard it is to find a good man to settle down with and start a family.
Mwalimu Rachel pointed out that part of the problem is that we’re not getting out of the house enough. “I think we are not getting out of the house enough, we are not seeing this as a worthy investment of our time and resources,” she said. This hit home for many ladies who spend our weekends glued to our screens or buried in work. We all know that finding love requires effort, but sometimes, it feels like an uphill battle just to get out there.
“You have to get out of the house number one, you have to dress up and look nice, you have to actually go to where eligible bachelors would be at depending on the caliber of men that you are looking for and also you have to be somewhere along those same lines,” Mwalimu Rachel added.
It’s true, isn’t it? Everyone needs to make an effort if they want to meet someone special. This means dressing up, looking our best, and showing up in places where we can meet the kind of people we’re interested in.
According to Mwalimu Rachel, finding a good man requires planning, even with busy schedules. She suggests stretching schedules a bit to accommodate social activities. Whether it’s going out for parties, hanging out with friends, or just being more active around campus grounds, these are opportunities to meet potential partners.
“That’s how I had my first boyfriend,” Mwalimu Rachel reminisced. “After school my friend, ukitoka hio gate life happens I wish tungekuwa within campus bado tungekuwa pamoja walai.” This nostalgia for simpler times when meeting people seemed easier is something many can relate to. But it also serves as a reminder that making time to socialize is key.
Finding a good man today might be challenging, but it’s not impossible. Mwalimu Rachel’s advice is clear: get out of the house, make an effort, and plan your social life around your busy schedule. Love won’t just come knocking on your door; you have to go out there and find it.
So, ladies, take a leaf from Mwalimu Rachel’s book. Dress up, step out, and explore the world beyond our four walls. Who knows? Your perfect match could be just a party or campus hangout away!
