The strained relationship between Akothee and her siblings is becoming increasingly evident. They no longer greet each other, as she recently admitted online. The singer turned entrepreneur opened up about her life since cutting off all communication with her siblings.
Akothee and her sister, Cebbie Koks, were once popular online, but the two are no longer on speaking terms. In a video posted on Wednesday, January 24th, Akothee declared that she won’t miss them anymore.
“Whatever I went through with my family in 2022 towards December, I wouldn’t want anyone to go through that,” she narrated, referring to her mental state during a relationship that came to an end. “I was in a tough situation, feeling alone. That’s the worst feeling in this world full of people. That’s the worst feeling anyone should have. Especially after helping almost everyone. It hurts. And by the way, I can say, you, in the flesh, I had a big barrier between me and my siblings.”
She added, “I don’t miss them because I don’t miss trouble.”
She also mentioned that it wasn’t clear who among them was toxic. “Maybe I was the toxic one, it’s okay. When you are toxic, you draw boundaries until there is none… you understand,” she used her hands to signify a tug of war.
“I don’t miss any of them, I don’t know them, okay, if we meet at my parent’s place, we have one father and mother. We are blood siblings, but the relationship and friendship are no more. You vibe with people who vibe with you,” she continued to share.
The mother of five has forgiven her siblings but set boundaries. “I forgave everyone but…. using her hand to draw a line with respect. We are not friends, we don’t vibe. The vibe is gone because I fear getting hurt again.”
They don’t even greet each other in public to protect themselves. “Why should we? If I greet them, I will fall into the trap again, even if I meet them publicly, I will just pass by them. What I went through was not worth it; it was too big.”
Now she has peace and no worries. “What I went through scattered me; I became naked, they threw me on social media with lies, how do you expect me to vibe with people like that? We share blood, values, we cooperate as parents, but we are not friends. It’s okay.”
