Speaking in an interview with Lynn Ngugi, she said that she chooses dating older men because they show her the utmost love and care; she doesn’t even show herself as a person.
“The reason I feel comfort with older people or older men is because they show me love and care.” Tracy Shared.
According to her, dating older men not only gives her comfort but is also a way she embraces because it fills in the void that her father left, adding that the older men understand her more than her peers tend to, hence the reason she settles for going for the older men, unlike her peers.
Even though she said that she was scared of men because her father initially used to be a violent man, she came to the realization that not entirely everyone is the same and people are different, admitting that there are good souls out here encouraging people to allow themselves to feel, live, and experience.
“Out of tenderness and care, I am able to enjoy relationships with men and seeing men in a different way because I was seeing men in a different way because I was scared of men…… I thought every man was like my father or a version of my father that I was seeing when I was little.” Tracy said.
She goes on to say that as she grew up, a lot of things that never used to make sense to her are now adding up as she is seeing life from a different perspective. She also advises the public, especially those who have parents, to embrace and respect their parents, even If they are toxic, saying they should love them even If it means loving them from a distance but at no point in life should they point fingers at them because they will also someday be parents and experience it themselves.
